কোন ব্যক্তির কি তার সম্ভাব্য স্ত্রীর বিষয়ে অনুসন্ধান করার অধিকার আছে? যা জিজ্ঞাসা ও আলোচনা করতে পারে তার সীমা কী? তারা কি এক সাথে বসে এই বিষয়গুলি সম্পর্কে জিজ্ঞাসা করতে পারে এবং এটি হওয়ার উপায়গুলি কী?
১ মিনিটে পড়ুন ১ বার দেখা হয়েছে১৭ নভেম্বর ২০২০
Does the man have the right to enquire about his prospective wife? What are the limits to what can asked and discussed? Can they sit together and ask about these matters, and what are the ways for this to occur?
The man who wants to propose to a woman has the right to enquire about her regarding every matter he wants in order to undertake his proposal. She is also has the right to enquire about every thing regarding him so as to give her consent of him. Since the man and woman in this case are foreign for each other, then it is not allowed for them to sit down together to enquire from each other about the matters of marriage. They are not allowed to discuss such matters alone even if the woman’s parents agreed to that. Therefore the enquiry about each one of them would be through their two families. This is before concluding the marriage contract. However, if the marriage contract was made between them, then it is allowed for them to sit down together and talk about the matters of marriage and other matters that are not haram.As for the principle (the means for haram is haram), it does not apply here, for as long as they were without a marriage contract it is not allowed for them to sit down alone and talk about any of the matters of marriage or other matters for they are foreigners to each other before the contract.
The man who wants to propose to a woman has the right to enquire about her regarding every matter he wants in order to undertake his proposal. She is also has the right to enquire about every thing regarding him so as to give her consent of him. Since the man and woman in this case are foreign for each other, then it is not allowed for them to sit down together to enquire from each other about the matters of marriage. They are not allowed to discuss such matters alone even if the woman’s parents agreed to that. Therefore the enquiry about each one of them would be through their two families. This is before concluding the marriage contract. However, if the marriage contract was made between them, then it is allowed for them to sit down together and talk about the matters of marriage and other matters that are not haram.As for the principle (the means for haram is haram), it does not apply here, for as long as they were without a marriage contract it is not allowed for them to sit down alone and talk about any of the matters of marriage or other matters for they are foreigners to each other before the contract.
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